Love Love Love

February, the month of hearts. As February 14 is fast approaching, most of us are already preparing what to do on Valentine’s day. The month of showing love to the people that we care; friends, family, kids and to our special someone’s.

Historically, named after Saint Valentine, this is the month of greeting cards, flowers and chocolates. People have the tendency to be more and more inclined of loving as we celebrate love month. I just wonder why love is greater expressed during February? With way things are happening, love should e showed, expressed and showered every day, 24/7. Love is magical yet so powerful. If we just shed hatred and begin to love people around us, peace follows. It’s so saddening with the wars, hate and crisis that is happening around the globe; people don’t love each other anymore. It is easy to say I love you or you love the people around you, easier said than done. We should learn how to love one another and care for each other. Who knows this may be the cure that we are looking for for a brighter tomorrow?

How can we express our love to the people around us?

Kids

Love is not only for adults. It is also for the young generation. Showing love and care would make a great impact in their personality and upbringing. This would help a child to be responsible as they mature. As a starter, let them know what is Valentine’s day and the reason why is it celebrated. Treat them to an ice cream parlor or give them a little gift. Giving gifts is not only done during holiday season, a little surprise might be a trick to your young ones to be more obedient and understanding love.

Teens

Young adults should be more aware of things that is happening around them. Unknowingly, wrong perception of love is one of the reason for early marriage and unwanted pregnancies. Teens needs guidance and understanding what love is, how it can help them in their daily life and how they can utilize it to improve their individuality. A trip to a sports shop or to a parlor would surely have that bonding time with your young adults and you might learn something from them too.

Adults

As mature individuals, we too sometimes think that love is just an expression to show that we care. There is a tendency that we just say it but not really mean it. People think sometimes it is corny if you show love and affection towards others but is not. In fact, people have that inner kindness that is just waiting to come out once properly motivated. I remember my uncle saying that love is unconditional. You would accept one person who he/she is not how he/she is. What they can offer and what they can give. Loving everyone in your life is being brave. Not afraid to show care and love is just not everyone’s cup of tea. A sincere i love you or a simple hug is a special treat. No need for fancy gifts. As long as it comes from the heart, a person would be appreciative to know that they matter and that they are important to your life.

We can never tell when we would not e able to say I love you to that person. Say it everyday, with care and sincerity. It’s never too late to show them that you treasure them as part of your life. Love is everywhere. Love is you and the people around you.

As we prepare for surprises for the hearts day, a cheerful smile and a loving thought matters a lot. Smile to all the people that you see on this day and I assure you, this would bring a feeling of contentment in your heart. Happy Heart’s Day everyone.